I think you are on the right track with your H at the moment and being emotionally available and supportive to him when he reaches out, should help loads with his resentment issues & hopefully bring you guys closer together.
Nice job YC
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13