Thought I'd share the book my IC said other clients of hers had said was helpful. It's got a bad title: "He Had it Coming: How to Outsmart Your Husband and Win Divorce." I ordered it from Amazon (delivered to my office not home) and will check it out. Supposedly it has checklists and information to help prepare wives who had no idea about their family finances before facing divorce.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.