I have no idea if my W is making her way "out"... From what I see though, given enough time and detachment, I think they stop seeing us as the enemy.
^^^^^^ This has been my experience as well...I am again her confidant in a lot of things. I haven't seen the alien spew monster (at least directed at me) in a long time (knocks on simulated wood, hey, its all I have at the office...).
HRM, going back to your interaction with H where you told him that he could leave...give it time for him to process that, you took his stick away....When I told W that, it threw her completely off track, and it took a couple/few weeks for the aftermath to show...luckily it helped nudge her towards the mlc tunnel exit (so far), rather than the house exit...
I hope your H sees the tunnel exit, but give it time...and that word we hear SO MUCH of here...patience.
You're a great person, you can do this!
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
