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Should I make dr appts and FORCE her to go?


How do you think that might work for you?

It is her body, she gets to decide if and when she pursues other medical care.

Strong arming her will most likely make her even less apt to share her innermost fears or possible feelings of inadequacy with you.

What do you love abut your wife? Do you tell her you love her because of those things? Have you validated her feelings on this on this subject.

Have you communicated to her in a way that can help her feel safe?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss