I would suggest you have a list of what you want. Tell her what they are and that you are not interested in being second fiddle to another many when it comes to your W, take the paperwork and then leave.
Whatever happens. Keep it short and sweet.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.