m-31 W-32
M 3yrs
T 4yrs
S10 S3

I read the article it was an eye opener! Last night we had a conversation about us. W commented that I seem upset the last two days. I was dettaching becuase there are things I want to change. W doesnt keep me informed about her day as she use to. W told she doesnt feel like telling everything she does anymore. I asked W if she is invested in making this work, she said yes, but it hard. W says she is trying but she doesnt feel the way she is suppose too. Example W give me was I use to miss you when you were gone and wanted to know what you were doing, now I dont. I just told her that if both of us want to make it work, that we can do it. Just staying patient. Anymore advice is always appreicated.