I believe my Xw did try to connect in her own way. I didn't realize it at the time. When she did make contact, I was already involved with my current wife and had moved on with my life. Had I not been involved with someone new, maybe we would have gotten back togehter. Maybe the only reason she tried to connect was that she felt she was really losing me. It may be why she is still angry with me today, I didn't wait for her.
I really believe that this is true. You can not wait and must get on living your life "as if" they are never coming back. But the script does seem to play out over and over the same way. Even for Paul.
