Originally Posted By: joeyp130

Yes. Long ago. I have told her I support her fully through this.



Joey, it's been 4 years ? And you are still angry about this...

I can read it in your words when you speak of it.

Let me give you this to chew on.....

When you forgive another person, it is NOT for them, it is for you. Forgiveness means that you don't ever bring it up again.

From what I see, this is a sticking point for you in every facet with her.

You SAY that you are there for her , and you will work through it with her....

Yes ????


I really want you to think about this....

By saying that, in the words that you have used...

You are laying every ounce of this in her lap. You are blaming her for doing this TO you.

You are insinuating that SHE is the one with a problem....

Where are you in this ????

At what point are you validating her ?

At what point are you not trying to fix her problems with your solutions ???


From what I read....you are there for her, as long as she does it your way....


And I would REALLY like to be wrong about this....

Am I ???