Some women have serious changes after giving birth. My question is your definition of it being a charade? Postpartum depression is a serious issue and so is vaginal pain. Were u that insensitive?
No. Absolutely not. When I used the word charade I meant her purposely "faking it" during sex and her decision to hide the pain from me for a year. It was a long time to keep up and hide the truth from me and I was very hurt.
So, do you think this was easy for her ?
Do you believe that she didn't hurt from this too ???
Of course I don't believe it was easy for her at any point. I tried to be as supportive as I could be. But to hide that from me and not share it with me was the worst way she could have handled it.
Once she did tell me the truth, we talked quite a bit over how we would handle it and what we would do as a couple moving forward. I assured her that I loved her very much and a sexual set back of this nature would not cause me to leave her.
