So the night before last she comes downstairs about an hour or so wanting to talk. She wanted to discuss divorce issues etc. my only response was more or less that I wanted more time to think things over etc.
A few weeks ago I had suggested to her that we back up a bit and give it 3-6 months just to see if our marriage is salvageable.
Well, she has now agreed to give it 3 months and reasses things from there. I am actually shocked by this. But she did agree to do things together with just us and our son.
I really don't know what to do next. I am not sure if she is truly on board with giving it a try and see what happens.
I am very much considering setting up some sessions with a DB coach. She has basically put the ball back in my court and now is not the time for me to be unsure and fumble.