UPDATE


So the night before last she comes downstairs about an hour or so wanting to talk. She wanted to discuss divorce issues etc. my only response was more or less that I wanted more time to think things over etc.

A few weeks ago I had suggested to her that we back up a bit and give it 3-6 months just to see if our marriage is salvageable.

Well, she has now agreed to give it 3 months and reasses things from there. I am actually shocked by this. But she did agree to do things together with just us and our son.

I really don't know what to do next. I am not sure if she is truly on board with giving it a try and see what happens.

I am very much considering setting up some sessions with a DB coach. She has basically put the ball back in my court and now is not the time for me to be unsure and fumble.