Your H and mine sound so similar, it's not even funny (well, it is).
Just catching up on what I've been missing. Lots of positives, both sitch-wise and also about you and your attitude. I love reading about your confidence and open mind, and your strength to keep going and not letting anything get to you. (((Ro)))
It's funnier now than it was before. Maybe because I used to be so serious about stuff, and since I'm not...EVERYTHING IS FUNNY! LOL
I think H actually gets annoyed when I say something is not a big deal now. He'll get this look on his face, like he had already prepared for a fight, and since he isn't getting one, he doesn't know what to do. LOL