Originally Posted By: Breakdown

On #2, I'm not sure that is a boundary I should set. It is something that is very hurtful to me, and it just adds to the stress of this roller coaster ride, but I don't think I should have to say that. I'm going to think on this one a bit.


If you are uncomfortable laying a boundary, then you are not ready to enforce it....

Simple as that...

Boundaries HAVE to be enforced, or they just become meaningless words ---yet again, from the LBS

Only you , know your threshold of pain...

If/when the time comes, you will know....