so defeated and scared silly

[labug]

Boundaries is exactly what I was thinking. Mach did a great post on boundaries to Breakdown in his boot camp thread this morning.

I think he crossed a boundary with you. There is no need for you to be upset that he's angry unless you feel the boundary was unfair or unclear. It would be ideal for the 2 of you to get granular with this. Just ask the question, How could we have done this better?

The issue is, if he constantly overrules you, do you want that in a R? Can it be worked out so you both get your needs met. Take this as an opportunity to turn things around.