If She Won't Stop the Affair?

[wont_stop]

As of right now, we are not having sex. Unfortunately, this whole affair has made it very hard for me to perform :-<. Its pushing her to the OM, but I don't know what to do about it. I've never had this happen before, ever. She is off with him all the time now, that I feel I'm just the baby sitter. And in Virginia, if you have sex with your partner, it is considered forgiveness, and the whole affair is forgiven, up to that date. So that weighs on my mind as well.

On top of this, because of her work schedule, she has the afternoon free while I have to work until 6pm. They get together every afternoon since they have the same work schedule. I don't know if I can ever compete with that, unless I could work at the same place. It will always be her temptation to be with him while I'm working. And she has made it clear she will not leave that job, as it has a lot of security. She practically cannot get fired.

With these problems in play, I don't know if I can be the better man.