I don't have one of the posts, but I think she said she felt she wasn't wrong *at the time*. It wasn't until later...
For what it's worth, they do sometimes admit it. Mine said something like that, but has since forgotten that and decided I'm to blame for everything again; seems to think I can't get over her leaving (as if) but that what she's doing with regards to the kids is fine.
They may never admit it us though. At least not truthfully. Can you imagine how hard that would be for them?? (as opposed to how hard it is to continue with the stories right?)
I doubt seriously it would mean much even if they did. Closure comes from within. Figuring it out or hearing those words has little effect in the scheme of things.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
