Does anyone have any insight to why W has not had me served? Through all of this she has put off filing for over three months now. From day 1 she said she wanted to be divorced and throughout has said it was over. But she never filed, moved out or got her own bank acct. Now she filed but hasn't served me the papers. I have to admit it is giving me hope. Just like her not doing anything before. I'm completely confused. Maybe she is too.