Broken74 - I will try to take a look at your sitch this evening. I don't know how long you have been doing this, but I would not suggest filing, or threatening to file, until you have exhausted all other options and efforts. My choice truly was the last, last resort... and I was at a place emotionally where I felt that I could accept either outcome. Just something to keep in mind.

Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce