RoughEnough, what you wrote in 467 above is great, that's what I meant.
WRT your feelings that it's not fair if she only loves you if you make enough money, that is not really what's going on.
Her love for you is not conditional, but her happiness is. She will love you unconditionally, but she won't feel safe, loved, and therefore happy unless you make enough money that she doesn't have to worry.
Remember too that you can make more, spend less, or some combination of the two. This isn't about her not loving you, it's about her not suffering
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
