The vacation went well, I notice when I start dettaching W becomes more caring and attentive. I feel that she is trying to make it work, but something is blocking her to allow herself completely come back to me. The more I show affection and wanting to be with W, it pushes her away. Then when I dettach W becomes more caring and attentive. Just dont know how I could continue, because I hate that I need to dettach in order for W become more caring.