Wow, she seems very unhappy and probably doesn't even know why.
NTX, honestly I believe she's suffering from depression, and has been for several years. She hasn't been herself for years. Or maybe what I see right now is who she is, though I doubt it. The good news is she started seeing a C, and a Christian one at that. She did say she really like her C.
Since she left, I have learned over the last year that a lot of the source of my anxiety was that I was trying to make her happy, but it really wasn't my job anyway.
It could be a mid life crisis. I bet the C will be a big help in the coming weeks.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
I agree, and thanks, NTX. I think it's just going to take some time with the C. Unfortunately, it looks like I'm relegated to drop a chunk of change on a L regardless. Of course, I don't think that's a bad expenditure either way. Best case, my M is saved and we're in a better place. Worst case, my S and I are protected from all of this nonsense.
You have this under control my friend. You know that I support you however you need. So cool that you were able to baptize your S. That is a big deal.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
You have this under control my friend. You know that I support you however you need.
Thanks, LITB.
Originally Posted By: LITB
So cool that you were able to baptize your S. That is a big deal.
Oh yeah, absolutely! It surpasses everything in that part of my life that's just crap right now. But it's also showing the good that can come out of our situations.
