It has been a long haul. At the beginning, I never thought I'd still be here like I am. However, my W has not shown any movement back toward me, just the occasional interest and noticing my changes.
The good news is the changes were all for me. As a result of my situation, I believe God has used my situation to His glory. I have done a lot of things that would have been outside my comfort zone in the past. I have made a ton of new friends, and frankly, met a lot of amazing people.
I feel well positioned for the next relationship, whether it's with my W or someone else.
So if you're new here, realize this is a marathon and not a sprint and for me it's been an ultramarathon that started out as a sprint. Use this time to work on you. Do things you've always wanted to do that are outside your comfort zone. Work on becoming your best possible self. You will save yourself and possibly your M.
