This is great news. It's sad that it takes playing the Ultimate Hole Card to get their attention (been there; done that), but there's zero doubt that it works.
Time to move to Piecing, buddy. You've earned it, and you'll get more specific advice there for this stage you are in. I can tell you, from experience, that as hard as this has been (and you have been through a LOT), Piecing is 5x more difficult. Not only that, the things that need to be done to be successful in affair- and divorce-busting are often diametrically opposed to what's needed in Piecing.
The good news? I think your skillset will actually be more tuned to Piecing than to affair-busting.
God bless, and VERY happy for you!!!
Starsky
Thanks Starsky. The ultimate hole card seems to have worked here. I thought about playing it many times during the 18+ months of my sitch. However, and I mean this as a warning to others, I think that you have to be completely willing to accept that it won't work and be completely willing to follow through, once you do really play that card.
Agree 1,000%. It can't merely be a gambit, or a tactic.
