1) do not be controlling 2) do not talk about R 3) do not worry about W's plans to move out or D 4) be happy, fun, maybe even a little flirty!
We had a showing last night that lasted over an hour. We are hopeful that we might get an offer today. W said to me last night "if you have time, can you look at houses for us...these people may want to move fast." She was talking as if we were buying a new place together and I thought, what's going on here. But I didn't say anything, I'm not going to mind read and it doesn't really affect what I look at or decide to purchase anyway. I just went with it and tried to be upbeat.
I am going to try to have some fun today and not worry about what is going on.....and tomorrow, I hope I can do it again, and so on, and so on