Sometimes I just feel like my mind is being warped here because everyone is telling me that I should just be ok with something that is so morally wrong.

I don't think anyone is telling you it's OK, but that you have no control over it.

It's a bad situation, no doubt, but you can either accept that, take control or your life and create something better or continue to be the victim and be unhappy, angry and resentful. As 25 says, play the cards you're dealt.

Which would be better for you and your kids?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss