Tad,

Snodderly gave me the advice long ago to sit quietly and I would get answers. When I took her advice I found out that she was spot on! The answers do come.

Sitting quietly does not mean that you stop moving forward with your own life and what you want to make of it. It just means to focus on you and those answers will come, a lot of times when you least expect them. Kind of like a watched pot never boils thing.