I'm sorry to hear that she's going in today and sign the papers. I had hoped that she would slow things down. Definitely do something special Friday.
Hopefully, in time, you will feel better and she will see consequences of her actions. She had a good man and walked away from a very promising marriage. I am very sorry to see this happen.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.