A few weeks ago during one of our talks she said, " maybe we will be one of those couples that divorce and remarry a few years later".
Huh??? Who says or thinks that?
I think if you keep reading through the threads, you'll see that that is actually a pretty common thing for WAS to say.
My H thinks that once we get a D, we can move on with our lives, and then maybe reconcile in the future.
Why we couldn't just work on things now before a divorce if there is a chance it could work? H doesn't think it works that way.
Right now, I'm standing for my M, even though I know there would have to be a lot of changes to make it work again. If we do end up with a D, I'll see how I feel then.
I see that you're new to the site, so I'd recommend reading as many of the threads as possible. Although you may think what you're going through is crazy, and it most likely is, you'll see that a lot of us on here are going through the exact same things.
It helps to feel that you're not alone in all of this.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
