If you look at my sig you will see where I'm at today. It's a long story but in short, he left me for ow, lived with her for nearly 2.5 years. She kicked him out and now I find out it's because he became mournful that he had destroyed his family, he called me late one night asking if the offer to sleep on the couch until he found somewhere else still stood. The couch turned into the bedroom and we are together again over 2 years but don't really have a direction yet.
He is much more attentive now than he ever was before and a lot of that came from me standing on my own two feet, taking care of my terminally ill mother and autistic son on my own without much input from him at all after he left. He saw me as more than the woman who took care of the house and cooked his meals and started seeing me as the woman he originally fell in love with.
Being yourself and finding what that means is the most attractive thing you could do. Even if he doesn't come back in the end, you will have gained so much more for yourself.
Remember, in the end, we are our own best advocate! Love yourself and others will love you in return.
Have you been to IC?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
