A few weeks ago during one of our talks she said, " maybe we will be one of those couples that divorce and remarry a few years later".
Huh??? Who says or thinks that?
You'd be surprised. My W seems to be in that boat. She wants the D before she's really willing to consider working on it. Weird huh? If you can peel back the onion though, maybe you can figure out what's going on. In my case, my W feels controlled, and doesn't think she can alleviate that feeling without D....but I only know that because I listened, and asked questions.
When they say that crap. You reply back. That not only are you divorcing a husband. But your also divorcing your best friend. When we are divorced we will not remain friends. We will co-parent our child. That is it.
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