Wife back in home, things better than ever!

[25yearsmlc]

DENVER,

my "fav co counsel" and uber articulate friend, I'm SO pleased you have reconciled AND posted to us!

You are right, the hard part is coming now. IT's sometimes plodding.

PLEASE see about attending Retrovaille. True, I am a believer, but you would not have to be, to get a lot out of their program. (Some folks fear that it's too religious but I did not get that at all. YES- they do discuss forming a spiritual connection but that doesn't seem as if it would bother you).

Retrovaille is so very good for Piecing b/c you DO need some new tools for a new stage and to keep on choosing forgiveness.

and b/c life throws curve balls at us a lot and keeps on doing that. (We were barely into piecing when my MIL got a terminal diagnosis)

I think it's a well timed experience if you can get to one soon. Like in the next few months. Their follow up program is excellent as well.

I am just glad you started a new thread. I was a little concerned I might have to pay out the bet that the last one wasn't going to be the last one...

Sounds good for you, Denver. Your summary sounded a bit compressed and maybe given the time line your sitch has been, it is a bit fast.

I hope that neither of you will miss any of the work that you both have to do... together... to piece and make this, round two, the M that you both want and deserve.

Cheers!

I too got a "compressed" sense but I don't want to negate the process you have been through.

When I think of 9lives, and the discussions we all were having last year, (God, was it last year or the year before??)

I can see what a long road it has been for you.

But build on this...and let it build so that a "big fight" does not end all this work.

Go get the tools my friend. Don't you both deserve it?

Oh, and how is SS handling all this?

-----I'm so very glad you posted....

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