Needing some guidance... 5

[jks]

I just got off the phone with Leni, one of the DB counselors... I feel soooo much better. Still angry but I know what I need to do now. She told me that I need to enforce this boundary of my children not being around OW while we are still married. Because apparently no one else in H's family is responsible enough to see what's wrong with it. She said... you tell your H that if he wants to see them then he can come to your place to visit them because he has showed that he cannot be trusted. She said what him and his family are doing is called emotional abuse to a child. No child should have to go through this. They continually feel like they're betraying their mother and they will show signs of this sooner or later. Which they already have. So this week I will be enforcing this rule when I get them back. This is my first step to doing something different. I finally feel like I am getting control back and I'm sick to my stomach that I let it go on for this long. Leni said she is too.