I was online reading about affairs and rebound relationships,etc.
As I read through these posts, I was really amazed at justifcation after justification these people have for having affairs. WOW.
You know I really think that the secrecy of the affair seems to make it all that more enticing and exciting to these people. Not one of them had left the spouse for the other, some never had any intetion of leaving the spouse for the other, and they all seemed to have a common justfication. They married too young.
There was one post where a couple left their spouses for the other and within a pretty short time frame they split because the other had and affair on the original affair partner.
It all seems to start with a spouse feeling lonely and neglected. Very good advice was in these posts and said that it's a good idea to GET HELP AND COUNSELING BEFORE you leave and jump in the sack with someone.
I don't know just very interesting what I read and I was pretty taken aback at the justifications these posters made for their choices. Im not judging....but rather disappointed more people don't stop and look at themselves more before going to such extremes.
