i'm good. i'm fine. more than fine.

[2thepoint]

Hi BF - Isn't it strange how one minute, one day, one week, one month we feel like we are totally over it and then some memory, sound or smell triggers all the emotion we thought we had purged?

I think that at the end of the day, all of this is just a process. Good days, followed by bad ones. Eventually the good start to outnumber the bad and the next thing you know, you are living life again.

The underlying sadness you feel is something I think we all feel. I don't know if it ever really goes away or if it is simply replaced by some other emotion. Perhaps the sadness gets buried under new found happiness.

BF, I believe that love and happiness is yours for the taking. Just don't go looking for it. It will arrive when you least expect it. It is a lot like a pot of water waiting to boil. If you watch it, it will take forever.

Live your life.