So while our son was eating I went into the little sun room off the kitchen to read. She came into the kitchen after 20 min or so and ask what I was doing in there by myself. I said " you said you felt awkward and uncomfortable around me so I am giving you space". She then said, " you don't have to sit in here, you can come in here with me and read"
I swear I think she is bi polar it something. I don't know what she wants or how she thinks I should act
She's confused, but I'd guess any pressure is what she wants to avoid, not any together calmness.
Originally Posted By: joeyp130
A few weeks ago during one of our talks she said, " maybe we will be one of those couples that divorce and remarry a few years later".
Huh??? Who says or thinks that?
You'd be surprised. My W seems to be in that boat. She wants the D before she's really willing to consider working on it. Weird huh? If you can peel back the onion though, maybe you can figure out what's going on. In my case, my W feels controlled, and doesn't think she can alleviate that feeling without D....but I only know that because I listened, and asked questions.
