(Good job in the counseling session by the way -- you might ask W next time you happen to talk to her what she wants to know? Tell her you're happy to talk to her. Tell her it's difficult for you to know where to start sharing your feelings, and ask her if she has any suggestions how the two of you might get that conversation to work more easily. Don't come in with suggestions, tell her you understand the problem too, and you want to know what she has to suggest to make it better. Trust me, that's a much better move than prescribing what she should do)

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015