Next time do not say " You said you felt ........ "
Just say.
"Wife. I just wanted to enjoy some quiet time and look out over the garden while I am reading. Beautiful day" Then just give a smile and go back to reading.
Stuff that makes you think HUH.
Keep quiet or just nod your head.
Next time with the DIY. Tell her your looking at your options.
And you should look at your options. You need to go talk to a lawyer and find out your rights and what to expect.
Financial settlement.
Do you exactly what you have , assets , debts, income taxes for the last 5 years. Expenses.
If not.
How can you do a DIY without any knowledge.
Always remember that sticking your head in the sand is no plan.
You need to prepare for either event.
And a word of advice.
Stop trying to figure out what she wants or how she will act.
You work on your own thoughts and actions.
And I reiterate.
Do not leave your home or your bed. Nor does your child.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
