So today she emails me and tells me that she is not comfortable here anymore and things are awkward and bothersome. She wants to proceed with the DIY divorce paperwork and if things change, which she doubts, we just won't sign them. Which means she will want a "settlement talk" soon. How should I respond?
I ignored the later part of her email mentioned above and asked her what exactly is making you feel awkward and uncomfortable? I don't follow her around the house, I don't tell her I love her. Nothing. When she gets home she sits on the far end of the couch and reads. I then play with our son Fter diviner until bath/ bedtime. I do the bath and she does bedtime
So while our son was eating I went into the little sun room off the kitchen to read. She came into the kitchen after 20 min or so and ask what I was doing in there by myself. I said " you said you felt awkward and uncomfortable around me so I am giving you space". She then said, " you don't have to sit in here, you can come in here with me and read"
I swear I think she is bi polar it something. I don't know what she wants or how she thinks I should act
A few weeks ago during one of our talks she said, " maybe we will be one of those couples that divorce and remarry a few years later".
Huh??? Who says or thinks that?
As of now, I plan to keep reading the DR book and try to detach and get things in my own life right
Is it bothering her or making her awkward or uncomfortable that our son wants to do things with me/ sit with me in the evenings?
Two weekends ago she wanted to take him to the movies alone but he didn't want to go if I wasn't going. This past weekend he wanted to go to the movies just with me while my wife was away working for the day.
