Joey, Is she on any kind of hormones? Be it for BC or other? After the birth of our son I got a synthetic hormone releasing IUD. Come to find out, 6 years later and on the verge of divorce due to my lack of libido (also somewhat painful intercourse), my BC has played a major role in both of the above areas and depression and a variety of other things that are so diverse it's nuts. This type of BC does not cause issues in everyone, in fact the majority of people do just fine but it could be an avenue to investigate. I wish you well and hope you both can find answers. Please understand that I am not trying to come to your wife's defense but there could be more underneath the surface. I had a hard to time going to Drs because every time I tried to get answers I was told everything looked normal. If she's discouraged help he understand that sometimes what is normal for most is not necessarily normal for all. Fine a new Dr, keep trying to get answers. Eventually you will come across a Dr that will think outside the box and actually treat the individual.
lillystillinlove M:43 H:49 T:17 M:16 S:6 Bomb: 1/27/12 EA+ with close married family friend / ILYBINILWY H moved out 7/27/12 H is Extremely angry, stressed and unable to forgive