This is why you need to detach. Rebuild your confidence. Do not engage. When relationship talks are brought up you say.

"I will think about that and get back to you within 24 hours."
or

" I can see how you feel that way"

Always say her name and look her in the eyes.

Start acting confident with her. Start getting ready for school. Do not make any decisions now.

But do not under any circumstances let her dictate your future.

"I will think it over."

"I do not think that this is in my best interest."

"No I will not be leaving the house nor will child."

Just step back.

Take your time and get some quiet time in to GAL.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!