Thank you, Brit. It's day to day but I've at least let him know that I'm not willing to continue my life in limbo much longer.

I also stopped the discussions about the past. I told him that I want solutions, not blame. I said we both have needs and we can negotiate so we are both getting our needs met.

I'm really not far from being the WAS. From all I've read on here, it seems to be a natural evolution.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing