"I should also note here that at some point she struggled with post partum(sp?) depression for about year as well and was on meds for it.

I was devastated. It bothered me that she kept up the charade for so long and it bothered me that she didn't tell me sooner"

Sorry you find yourself here. But can you splain the charade remark a bit? At the top of this thread there is a post that says Sandi's 37 rules, read them. You also need the DR book and if you can get a phone coach, they are great. Keep posting so we can get to know u.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden