Just wanted to agree that you shouldn't use the rules or DB'ing "techniques" as a game you play to get someone back. A lot of the rules are to stop you from screwing up the situation. LOL. It's when people are in the panicky my world is falling apart mode and need the rules so they don't drive past thier W/H's house 20 times a night, drop off cupcakes, show up in a trench coat and nothing else, burn all their W/H's clothes. LOL any of the above or just sending 10 text messages a day and calling to say "I missed your voice"
It's to give them the appearance of a normal functioning person until you become one again. LOL My sister once said of her ex I get these moments where I really miss them but then remember what a psycho they are. So there you go her ex was a psycho during the split and even though my sis was now remembering happy times the damage during separation meant she would never go back.
Your W may not have known what to expect when she called you, you were happy, upbeat, and supportive. The next day she responded in kind. It's difficult to understand that they are just as wary of us as we are of them. When you give out positive happy fun vibes it gets returned.
