Funny GM, my STBXH told me that 50% of marriages end in divorce and those people are all fine. I laughed and asked how many of those people he had talked to.
It really doesn't matter. Just keep taking care of you and your boys!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!