Wow, she seems very unhappy and probably doesn't even know why.
NTX, honestly I believe she's suffering from depression, and has been for several years. She hasn't been herself for years. Or maybe what I see right now is who she is, though I doubt it. The good news is she started seeing a C, and a Christian one at that. She did say she really like her C.
Since she left, I have learned over the last year that a lot of the source of my anxiety was that I was trying to make her happy, but it really wasn't my job anyway.