If she is having an affair I feel like it would be a deal breaker for me
Hey Joey,
Bug is right. One thread will make it easier for us to follow along.
Anyhow, it sounds to me like an affair "might" be a deal breaker. You don't sound so sure about that. If it is, I can completely respect that.
Perhaps you should wrap your mind on what you want to do whether there is one and if there isn't one. IOW, prepare yourself.
A big part of DB'ing is getting yourself to a healthy place, so your life will be great despite the outcome of your sitch.
When just one person changes, the dynamics of the relationship also change.
I'm sure your longer post will help us help you.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
