So without going into specific detail about the situation, lets just say that my W and I both need to work on effective planning and communication. That will be my goal for the immediate future.
How do you plan on accomplishing this?
Well is ain't gonna be easy! She will send a text that supposedly provides detail about an event or planned activity that is often missing some critical piece of information. When challenged on this, she will claim with a completely straight face that that information was contained in the text as well. I've stopped fighting her on this because it's just like pulling off a scab and adding salt to the wound.
I have an IC appointment later this week. I will use that time to develop a strategy for dealing with the communication and planning issue. Of course, I could just file for D and put the wheels in motion that will bring all of this to a final conclusion. Not sure I'm ready for that yet. We'll see.
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
