I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences"

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Sorry - I have not reported on here for a while.

Well I am sad to report the D went through last week,it was really weird, as I thought I would be notified of the date in advance, apparently if you have a settlement agreement in place - the papers are filed and then reviewed / rubber-stamped.

I accidently found out on Friday (I dropped my L after we had a settlement agreement in place) - when I logged into the county court website and saw that it was completed on Weds. I still don't have the actual papers.

I have been trying to see my girls as often as possible and my W has been very good about me seeing them. For example last weekend was not my weekend, but I took my girls to a carnival / fireworks and brought them to my Ex-W's home and looked after them until she finished work.

Interaction with my Ex-W has been strictly business about the girls and any other logistics re: the D.

Work has been very busy so I've not really had many opportunities for GAL - suits me for now, I would rather be kept busy, though I do have a concern re: work as we recently lost a big client. Not sure what the down-stream impact is.

Money is tight - but manageable, I bring lunches every day to work and cook larger meals and freeze them.

One interesting thing, when I was at Ex-W's house on Saturday, I noticed one of our wedding photos (my Ex-W and I dancing at the wedding), was on a shelf as you climb the stairs. Not sure if she just wanted to fill the space with a picture (or put it up for my benefit as she knew I would be there). I know mind-reading, she probably doesn't even realize it's there.

I'd like to thank all the good folks on this forum - not sure I would be in the place I am today without you all. It's not where I expected to be in life, but I am doing my best to be the best father I can be. GAL will come as work dies down a little...

I will check in on the forum on a semi-regular basis and provide feedback where I can and pot any updates.

Peace everyone.