It is odd to me that your h's T would call and schedule an appt with you to tell you what your h said and where he is at.

If this happens again I would suggest a session with the both of you so you can hear things straight from h if he wants to share w/ you.

Or don't go at all because right now you are working on you and not focusing on your h, right?

It may have hurt and reinforced some negative feelings but I'm w/ bug, nothing has really changed.

This is all part of a long process J and at times it feels like it will never end but you are doing great.


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley