also one bit of advice....

I reread my notes from Cheryl and it said be clear and ask for what you want.

I wish I had made better notes. I don't remember what that means or what the hell I should be asking for.

I of course know better (NOW I know better LOL) that I shouldn't be asking for him to move out of GF's, to move in with me, to dip me Scarlett O'Hara style, to hire a horse to ride off into the sunset together, or to run through the rain and hold a boom box outside my window.

But I worry that any asking is putting pressure on the sitch