I know Tad....it's truly amazing the anger these people have. It seems to be a monthly thing with XH....I get a good dose of spew over things that never required spew in the first place.
Sometimes I feel he tries to get into my good graces so he can just scream at me again later. And guess what his excuse for hurtling insults and scathing texts were last time? He was just trying to help!
It's very hard to understand this extreme anger when we get it full force. But I agree, happy people don't go around spewing and stewing at anyone. I know this because aside from this horrible betrayal and heartache I've had over this, I am and have always been a happy person. Sure I get irritable and tired, but I don't go out searching for my next victum to tear to shreds cause life has dealt me a crappy hand! I like to be friendly to people, it's just my nature.